parallel cousin
- Related Topics:
- cousin
- cross-cousin
What is a parallel cousin?
How does a parallel cousin differ from a cross-cousin?
parallel cousin, the child of a paternal uncle (father’s brother) or a maternal aunt (mother’s sister). Parallel cousins are thus the children of two brothers or two sisters. The children of a father’s brother are patrilateral parallel cousins; the children of a mother’s sister are matrilateral parallel cousins. Parallel cousins can be contrasted with cross-cousins, the children of a father’s sister or mother’s brother. While the English language considers all of these relationships as cousins, many languages distinguish between parallel cousins and cross-cousins, and parallel cousins frequently fall under words used for siblings.
Parallel-cousin marriage
Some societies consider cousin marriages to be ideal. In cultures that differentiate between cross-cousins and parallel cousins, cross-cousin marriage is usually preferred. Parallel-cousin marriage often falls under incest taboos, because matrilateral parallel cousins (in matrilineal societies) and patrilateral parallel cousins (in patrilineal societies) are part of the same family unit and are thus treated as something closer to siblings than are cross-cousins. However, there are a few societies in which a parallel cousin is the preferable marriage partner. In the Middle East, for example, the traditionally ideal wife is a man’s bint al-ʿamm, or the daughter of his paternal uncle. Importantly, the bint al-ʿamm does not need to be a man’s first cousin but can be a woman more distantly related through the patriline. That is, a person’s bint al-ʿamm could be the father’s brother’s daughter, the paternal grandfather’s brother’s granddaughter, or someone similarly related through the great-grandfather. (Many individuals do not marry their parallel cousins, even when such relationships are ideologically preferred.)
Parallel-cousin marriage often allows for the maintenance of family wealth and the fostering of close family ties. In societies that trace family membership through only the mother or the father, parallel cousins are in the same family unit or clan. Since both spouses in a parallel-cousin marriage are members of the same family, no resources go outside of that family as a result of the marriage. Parallel-cousin marriages also mean that neither spouse is required to move away from the extended family.